🎤 Who Is Jaheim?
Jaheim Hoagland, better known simply as Jaheim, is an American R&B singer from New Brunswick, New Jersey. Raised in a musical household—his grandfather was part of The Drifters—Jaheim developed a rich, soulful vocal style that blends the emotional depth of old-school soul with the smooth polish of modern R&B.
His 2001 debut album Ghetto Love went platinum and launched a string of hits like “Just in Case” and “Could It Be”. His voice has often drawn comparisons to Luther Vandross and Teddy Pendergrass for its power and depth.
🎬 About the Music Video: “Put That Woman First”
Released in 2002 as the lead single from Jaheim’s second album Still Ghetto, “Put That Woman First” is a heartfelt anthem urging men to appreciate their women before it’s too late.
The music video, directed by Darren Grant, is a dramatic story of heartbreak and reflection. Jaheim plays a man dealing with the pain of a failed relationship. The video flashes between happier times and emotional isolation, reinforcing the song’s message: prioritize the woman who’s been there for you.
Alt Text for Featured Image: Jaheim looking reflective in a dimly lit apartment with flashbacks of a past relationship – “Put That Woman First” video (2002)
💔 Cultural & Emotional Impact
The song became Jaheim’s signature hit, topping the Billboard R&B/Hip-Hop chart and connecting with fans for its mature message and emotional honesty.
“No one else in early 2000s R&B was singing like this,” critics said. At a time when club anthems dominated, Jaheim delivered a slow, soulful reminder of what love looks like when it’s taken for granted. The video’s visual storytelling only deepened its emotional power.
🎼 Trivia & Song Facts
The track samples “I Forgot to Be Your Lover” by William Bell (1968), adding a vintage soul foundation.
Produced by KayGee of Naughty by Nature, the song fuses street sensibilities with timeless themes.
Jaheim’s clean-cut, grown-man look helped define his image in contrast to flashier R&B acts of the era.
The message of accountability in love made this a popular song for mature R&B playlists, weddings, and even therapy sessions.
🔗 Related R&B Classics to Explore
Anthony Hamilton – Charlene
Donnell Jones – Where I Wanna Be
Joe – I Wanna Know
Jaheim – Just in Case
📊 Why It’s Still Relevant
“Put That Woman First” remains an evergreen classic because its message is universal. The video and lyrics remind us to cherish love before it’s gone. It’s still featured on adult R&B stations, wedding playlists, and TikTok tributes, proof that the song—and video—continue to strike a chord.
For R&B fans, it’s more than just a song. It’s a reminder.
